Naked And Strange
Three (3) Questions I Answered About Sex And Relationships During A Flow State I Miss In Which I Was In Love Full Of Deep Sleep And Fear And Living In A Cold Empty House
i am supposed to write inflammatory headings so that you will read my emails
you don’t need to read my emails
you don’t need to do anything
in short– trust yourself
Sotce, how does your sexuality play into your divine self? I have trouble respecting this part of me and assessing her needs- how to mend a troubled past and care for myself on my own?
I think sexuality is a really interesting way to play with our human needs. I think it often points to what we wanted deeply as children, what we lacked in our most primitive environment. The feelings speak more truly to me than the stories or actions, notice the feelings and where they bring you.
With this being said, a lot of the emphasis around sex in our society is misguided to me. I think every way is a way but there is a big world and a lot of other directions to look in that do not implicate others so strongly in practices of indulgence.
Sotce, how do I deal with my fiancé's infidelity? I found out just recently that he was cheating on me again. Some time ago when I found out I forgave him. Now it happened again, how can I stay strong, break up and move on?
You need someone who can stand by your side. In my opinion that is the most important quality a partner can possess; more important than him being funny, or brave, or sweet, or magnetic. At the end of the day this man cannot do the one thing you really need him to do. A man who can make a promise to you and keep that promise is worth more than any personality trait, any looks, any heart.
Listen to your deepest needs and look for them in everyone.
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